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The Law of Attraction Does Not Work… Unless…

  • Beejal
    Thursday, March 19th, 2015

There are people who claim they merely have to think about what they want, and it magically happens. They universe then works it miracles to make it happen, effortlessly… ummm!

Did You Know ‘The Law of Attraction’ experts got kicked out of the Secret?

The Law of Attraction was popularized by the book ‘The Secret’. However, it was another team from the US Spiritual circuit that coined and popularized the phrase ‘The Law of Attraction’.

Following taken from: Abraham-Hicks website:

This is the original source material for the current Law of Attraction wave that is sweeping the world, and it is the 21st century inspiration for thousands of books, films, essays and lectures that are responsible for the current paradigm shift in consciousness.

 Here you will find accurate clarification of the basics of the Law of Attraction and practical applications as well as up-to-the-moment leading-edge expanding information regarding the Law of Attraction. (Also known as “The Teachings of Abraham”)

This is the fountainhead of the information upon which the hit movie, “The Secret” was based.

NOW: you have to put this in perspective – the very team of Esther Hicks and the entity called Abraham, were cut out of the version of ‘The Secret’ that was released world wide. When I first saw ‘The Secret’ it featured Esther Hicks, however, there was a falling out in the ‘Secret’ camp, and Rhonda Burns replaced them with Lisa Nichols.

Certified Law Of Attraction Teacher – Certified By Who?

The Law of Attraction is all the rage these days, with ‘certified’ Law of Attraction teachers, reaping the rewards from manifesting students who desire to learn this magical way of making things happen.

Within the context of Law of Attraction, there are many wonderful theories, tools and process. Many teachers profiting from teaching LOA, and why not… desperate people will buy into such theories and they will create just enough results to prove that it works.

But, what always seems to intrigue me is that ‘Law of Attraction’ teachers, seem to struggle manifesting things, as much as, and maybe even more so, than people who have never heard of Law of Attraction and Manifestation principles.

If you are going to work with a Law of Attraction teacher, at the very least evaluate what they have ‘manifested’ in their life (the good and not so good). Proof is in the pudding.

Percentage Success Rate

It’s a little bit like prayer and asking god, some things will come to be, and some things won’t. Statistic show, that regardless of your religion, ‘God’ seems to respond in the same percentage manner… some prayers will be answered, some wont be. What’s more interesting is that atheists and non believers seem to manifest results also at the same percentage, all things being equal.

Disclaimer: my opinions are not coming from some well funded university research… it’s coming from my observation and the law of common sense… which by the way is not so common apparently!

What Is The Law of Attraction?

There are hundreds of books in this subject, so I am only going to give you a few snippets:

1) Focus in what you want vs. what you don’t want.

2) Focus on the solution vs. the problem

3) Positive mindset attracts positive results vs. Negative mindset attracts negative results

Fairly logical right? Here’s the problem… very few of us have the ‘mindset’ to practically do this!

Your Thoughts Create Your Reality

Every ancient scripture refers to a concept “your thoughts create your reality”. The understanding of the power of the mind and consciousness was well understood several thousands of years ago. And therein lies the problem ‘the mind’, and the ‘thoughts’ that run through it.

The ancient practice of yoga (not the spandex version of today) was to teach one how to master the mind. It was a very disciplined practice as the ancients understood both the power and frailty of the mind. While many believe Yoga, means union, and thus a spiritual practice, the actual purpose of yoga was to teach one mental and emotional mastery.

The notion of ‘Thoughts create your reality” should not be taken out of context, not should the importance of ACTion.

Law of Attraction vs. Law of ACTion

I will go one step further, and risk criticism from hardcore ‘Law of Attraction’ believers, and that is many of the people teaching ‘Law of Attraction’ are full of crap. Don’t believe me? Ask them about their lives… let’s really see how well it’s working. They seem to have the same struggles and challenges as the rest of us… and maybe more so, because instead of making things happen, they by into the notion they merely have to think about it, and then they sit around and wish for things to happen aka law of wishful thinking… which tends to leave many simply wishing!

The Law of Attraction is incomplete without the Law of ACTion. And this is what people don’t want to hear. It’s much easier to buy into concepts which undermine the reality of taking action and the taboo word ‘Hard Work’.

Your Subconscious Mind Generates Your Thoughts

At the core of Law of Attraction are the quality of your thoughts. The right ‘quality’ thoughts will lead to the right action, and the right actions will lead to better results (in most cases). There’s a small flaw with this concept. Your sub-conscious mind.

Like it or not, our minds, the most powerful and amazing thing in the known universe is bloody flawed, and while we like to think we are in control of it, our minds seem to have a mind of it’s own. Hence, why on going mental and emotional mastery is critical for achieving great success and happiness in life… and why most people struggle with Law of Attraction…

Most do not have the mental disciple and quality of mind required to truly tap into the Law of Attraction. Knowing this, we can hack Law of Attraction, and that hack is the Law of ACTion.

Practical Manifestation: The Law of Attraction PLUS The Law of ACTion

NOW, I am not discounting that within the content and subject of Law of Attraction there are not good practices, tools and processes… there are, I use them… but at the end of the day, there are other laws that have to be taken into consideration.

The Law of Attraction works wonders when it crosses paths with the:

  • The laws of gravity
  • The laws of reality
  • The laws of possibility
  • The laws of probability
  • and my favorite, the laws of taking appropriate, consistent and tenacious action.

Random Acts of Manifestation

Look, I am not saying there are not times, you thought about something and it actually happened quite literally like magic. We’ve all had such experiences. There are also times you met the right person at the right time… I’m not discounted such universal phenomena. However, as a results coach, I have to work with what’s tangible and MOST LIKELY to produce the results my clients desire.

Like Law of Attraction teachers, I also advocate the power of creative visualization, intentions, affirmations… and I also believe the power of taking appropriate, consistent and tenacious action is the most important laws one must follow to increase the odds of manifesting that which you desire.

AIM for what you want,
take ACTion,
now let universe do its job!

 3 Quick Tips For Manifesting Anything

  • Stop wasting time on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram… unless its relevant to the creating the result you desire.
  • Take ACTion
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Making It Happen: My AIM to ACT System

OK, so there’s a few more steps involved in manifesting what you want.

Over the years I have developed my own process and systems for getting things done. By no means am I saying the system was all my creation, it’s evolved from learning many systems taught by the greats. It’s broken down into two stages AIM & ACT:

AIM: Attention – Intention – Motivation

ACT: Appropriate Action – Consistent Action – Tenacious Action

Part 1 – AIM:

First you AIM for what you want. I use the analogy of archery to best explain this:

You pay attention to the target, you tune out everything else. You pull back the string, which is now in-tension. This represents the potential energy built up within, your desire to achieve set objective. Underlying this objective is your motivation, why do you want to to achieve this objective.

Part 2 – ACT:

Next, you must take appropriate, consistent and tenacious action… you leave the rest to universe:

After you have clarified your AIM, you have to take ACTion. You need to take appropriate action, consistent action and tenacious action to turn your visions, your dreams, your plans into reality… and a touch of luck!

Call It Luck, Call It The X-Factor… It Plays A Part

Even with all the process, tools, techniques… I have come to the conclusion, realization that luck does play a role. I know many ‘guru’s’ will disagree, but, I’ll stand by my comment. There an X-factor. Some will call it the ‘God’ factor, I tend to disagree. If there’s a God, I really dont feel he or she is bias in granting people their desires.

Part 1: The AIM Process

Attention – Intention – Mindset

Compelling Vision For The Year

  • Write down the BIG compelling results you desire by the end of the year (specified period)
  • Divide into the 12 key areas of life (or as required)
  • Optional – Print Out & Display
  • Optional – Create your vision board

Monthly Objectives (Print Out)

  • Beginning of each month, write down key results or milestones you wish to achieve
  • Use Wundrlist (or similar to make a note of these)
  • Print and display to remind you of what your attention should be on.

Weekly Objectives

  • Beginning of each week, use Wunderlist to select weekly objectives

Daily Objectives (paper)

  • Use wunderlist to select daily tasks
  • OR, if preferred, write down your daily objective on paper
  • Cross out what you get done

Part 2: The Daily ACTion Process

Appropriate Action – Consistent Action – Tenacious Action

Step 1: Review tasks from your primary list

Step 2: organize into a day list in the App you use OR write them down in a Monthly Task Journal, Diary, Sheet of paper / Clipboard (my preferred option)

Step 3: identify the MUST do tasks, place at top of list.

Step 4: Manifestation Visualization: Take 5-10 minutes to think about the benefits and rewards for completing that task. Tasks that are challenging (visualize the achievement – believe you can)

Step 5: Take on the MUST DO tasks first
Step 6: Let Go – Focus on the action, let universe take care of the results.

Useful App’s  (app’s I personally use)

Everyone has there preferred tools and apps they use to support the process

  • Google Docs
  • Google Calendar
  • Wunderlist
  • Water Your Body

Tips for Using Google Calendar

If there’s one tools that will help you with manifesting results it’s ‘Google Calendar’. Here’s some tips on using it more effectively.

  • Enter times for the DAILY activities you should be doing:
    • Meditation
    • Visualization
    • Exercise
    • Reading
    • Journaling
    • Relaxation time
  • Vacations
    • Mini-Vacations (1-3 days)
    • Major-Vacations (5+ days)
    • Holidays you celebrate
  • Events
    • Events you know you need to attend
    • School events
    • Birthdays & Anniversaries you prefer not to work
    • etc.

Conclusion & Disclaimer

I don’t mean to offend any ‘Law of Attraction’ believers and teachers. If it’s working for you, I stand corrected. I wrote this for the rest of us, the mere mortals on this planet. My main reason for writing this is to interject a reality factor, and that’s, you gotta’ do the work. You focus and do what you need to do, universe may or may not respond in kind… either way, don’t be attached the outcome.

I end with a disclaimer. I am a mere mortal… I know it’s hard to believe. Which means, that even after everything is said and done, some things come to be, some things don’t.


Beejal Parmar

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